Onam Away from HOME

Onam Away from HOME

Preetu Nair discovers that Keralites in Goa have adapted the family-centric celebration into a community festival with Goans on the guest list


Change, it is said, is the only constant. And for the Keralite settlement in Goa, the 10-day Onam celebrations, not unlike the zealous festivities down south, are nonetheless with a spot of change.
Take, for instance, the very core of the celebrations — the family. While in Kerala, generations of families celebrate the harvest festival together, often in their ancestral home, those unable to leave Goa, have adapted.
“We always feel like going to Kerala for Onam, but rarely can. So, in Goa, Thiruonam (the most important day) is like any other day: the kids go to school, my husband goes to work. But, we try to make up for what we’re missing back home, by ensuring that we have the onasadya (feast) together and by doing pookalam (flower decorations) at home,” says Margao-based Gita Achary. While in Kerala, the flowers are hand-picked, lack of time has many Goa-based Keralites opting for a floral purchase from the market, she adds.
Ask Dinesh Cheerassery about Onam, and nostalgia fills his voice. “I miss home and the time I would spend with my siblings and mother at our ancestral home during Onam,” says the Bicholim resident. As a child, the 42-year-old remembers waiting “anxiously” for what Onam symbolised — the new dress, lavish meal and “the swing that my uncle would make for us”. Today, his siblings still meet at the ancestral home to celebrate, but Cheerassery is “unable to go”.
KRS Nair has found a way to bridge the physical gap — the idiot box. “We watch the traditional Onam celebrations in Kerala on television. Through the medium of TV, the spirit of Onam is still alive for us, even in Goa,” says the president of the Nair Service Society of Goa, who has completed almost five decades in his adopted state.
Adds Cheerassery, who has been calling Goa home for two decades, “If in Kerala Onam is celebrated with the family alone, here we celebrate it with family, friends and everyone, including Goans.”
Agrees Lalu Abraham, “The best thing about celebrating Onam in Goa is that it’s not just a family affair, but a community affair where everyone gets together, eats together and becomes one big, happy family.” Malayali groups in the state mark the festival by organizing games, flower display competitions, cultural programs, onasadya (vegetarian lunch) prepared by cooks from Kerala and even Malayalam language knowledge competitions.
But for some, the celebrations back home — gala processions, kathakali and other traditional dance performances, the snake boat race and onappottan, the visit on Thiruonam of a person dressed as Mahabali — are too endearing to miss.
Which is why, despite no Onam holiday in Goa, college student Stephy Abraham has decided she will be home for Thiruonam. “I did it last year too and this year it’s on Friday. I’m headed home.” Happy Onam. TNN
Celebrations
A grand feast called Onasadya, prepared on Thiruonam, is the most important among all the fervour and carnival-like celebrations of Onam
A nine course meal, it consists of 11-13 essential dishes, that are served on banana leaves. People consume it while sitting on a mat on the floor
Vallamkali or the snake boat race, is another important aspect of the celebrations. The race sees hundreds of boatmen race on the river Pampa
Most houses display Pookalam — a flower exhibit — in their front courtyards to welcome King Mahabali
Given the rich celebrations during the festival, Onam was made Kerala’s National Festival in 1961
Onam at a glance What is Onam?
A harvest festival, Onam is the biggest, most important celebration in Kerala. It is celebrated by all communities and popular legend has it that it is held to welcome King Mahabali
Legend
The story goes that during the reign of the mighty demon king Mahabali, Kerala witnessed its golden era. Jealous about the king’s growing popularity, the gods used his only weakness — his ego — to end his reign. However, as Mahabali had done a lot of good, the gods granted him a boon: he could visit his people, to whom he was so attached, once a year. This visit is celebrated as Onam
Period
Onam lasts from four to 10 days. Thiruonam, which falls on September 12 this year is the most important of all days

September 11, 2008,The Times of India, Goa edition